SUMMARY
The author reflects on the common experience of being the family's designated photographer, a role that leads to documenting countless memories but results in the photographer rarely being present in the photos. This often leads to a personal collection filled with images of loved ones, but few of oneself. While modern tools like self-timers and companion apps exist, they often yield less-than-ideal results. The author suggests that sometimes, being the 'fly on the wall' can lead to more naturalistic and creative shots, turning the curse of the designated photographer into a blessing.
TAKEAWAYS
Designated family photographers often miss being in their own photos.
Documenting family events means the photographer is usually behind the camera.
Self-timers and apps can help but often produce less desirable results.
Being the 'fly on the wall' can sometimes yield more naturalistic photos.